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6 Signs Showing You've Lost Control of Your Dependence

6 Signs Showing You've Lost Control of Your Dependence

What are the signs that show you've lost control of your addiction? Managing a habit can be one of the most difficult things anyone could ever undergo.

I went through a phase of unending apprehension, desolation and mental disturbance; during this phase, I felt tortured but then my breakthrough came, I got back on my feet and became the captain of my ship. The world might also have fallen upon itself and it would've just the same importance to me.


When I began using I felt like all of my fears were rendered inactive.


All of my worries and challenges abruptly mixed and disappeared throughout that overpowering feeling of fake happiness and gladness that finally lead to my gravest moment.

The period before I enrolled in a remedial program remains one of the toughest periods of my addiction. Not realizing that I have lived with addiction problem gave me time to make up reasons why I acted like a person with no direction, giving up everything I worked hard for, everyone I care about left me and I have nothing left.


These 6 Signs Woke Me Up To Reality That I Went Too Far With My Addiction And That I Had To Make It Up

  • Life is by all accounts just fate and despair

When I was a substantial client, it didn't make a difference what or the amount of it I took, life would just not get the hues that it once had. The stressful times made me stuck, it was like holding my body back and telling me to stay on the wrong path. Everything appeared to be an acts of futility and the feeling of disappointment I began feeling must be contrasted and the mistake I knew I was bringing about to my friends and family. Then, all I felt were guilt and frustration getting into me, I pictured my beloved family and friends were disappointed by me I almost could not forgive myself. Everything in my life was telling me that I was the worst person for letting down everyone who cared about me, that I have made the worst mistakes over and over again. It was a never stopping system where dejection and anxiety passed the ball onto one an tither's court and my only path out was to heighten the amount I was utilizing. Apparently, by utilizing more and more often, the spiral of self-destruction I was entangled in took its baddest and massive turn and enabled me feel I was attaining a point of no comeback. At that point, all the sadness and feeling of failure were such a heavy load, that my habit of using to get rid of the feeling was just dragging me further into it.

  • You lose sight of things you once cherish and sooner than you expect they are gone.

I appreciate the people who stood by me when I was deep in substance abuse. Some others could no longer take it and left permanently since they couldn't simply comprehend how my dependence worked. However, because of how deep into my challenges and problems I was, I began to chase away even the ones that wanted to stay close to rescuing me out of it. It was like my addiction had hands that closed my eyes to see the reality. I began to report ill at work because I didn't feel like working. I passed up a great opportunity for dates and social occasions with loved ones since I couldn't manage being calm for so long. Life reduced itself to simply one thing, and that very single thing was what darkened my life to the stage where I lost everything I at one time loved.

  • You become a puppet to drugs.

Self-motivation was not my strength. I had repeatedly lied to myself that I would quit drugs every time I took drugs. I always wanted to take more of the substance during such times as a sign of my quitting the drug use. My body and soul were controlled by the guilt and frustration, leaving me unable to interact with people like I used to because the guilty I felt. I hid in my flat day and night, dropping any other duties. At the point when bills came they began to heap up on the table. Sometimes I got calls persistently which I never responded to; it was an open secret that something was amiss with me yet my ego prevented me from confirming the affirmative. I was a puppet with no idea how my strings were pulled. Not even when, where or even how much I utilized.

  • You lie to everybody, yourself inclusive

This was maybe the thing that compounded the situation than what they could've been. Besides guilt, there was something got inside me, that is fear of being rejected by people around me that pushed me to lie. I lied to cover up my bad addiction and it gave me hard times to cope with. I was taking money from friends and family, never being able to return it. Addiction was destroying my life in numerous ways, monetarily, emotionally and biologically. I was manhandling my body. I quit eating, quit dealing with myself, began shedding pounds at a disturbing rate; everybody knew I was having issues and they all needed to help, however misleading them and myself simply developed a divider amongst them and me. It creates a yet even larger and greater barrier between me and myself. I convinced myself to keep using until it feels like somebody else got into me, tons of excuses I told myself that it is okay to keep using.

  • The thought of being sober scares you so you continue in the use of drugs.

Pull-out is one of the depressive phases for an addict. The worries and all those mixed feelings that make everything look like hell is something that I wanted to avoid by all possible means. Getting high while using is a feeling that can replace those negative feelings, so I did it to avoid being depressed. There is this desire to take more drugs as an escape route due to the level of tension within you. And as a result to the reality that the more I utilized the more tolerance I created, it turned out more bad within time.

  • You care about nothing else

I drowned myself by reasons to keep using. I lost my bonds with everyone I cared about. Every one of my feelings of dread turned out to be valid and I no longer thought about whatever else other than being high. I created a huge gap between myself and everyone else so no one could come across though some of them stood and waited for the chance to crossover just to assist me. I seriously cared about nothing else other than being high, this addiction almost killed me. My boss dismissed me, my workmates halted ringing, most of my blood ties slowly gave up and attempted to turn the page.


By now everything the people close to me told began to get to me. I was totally drowned in the well of addiction and thought I would die alone. But then I got an epiphany to reach out my hands asking for help, thankfully there were some people waited at the top of the well.


Staying with a dependence is possibly the most difficult situation I have ever experienced, and surely could as well be the toughest thing my family and allies have ever undergone. I trust things could've been somewhat less demanding on everybody on the off chance that we as a whole knew more about what habit implies to the someone who is addicted as well as to the family. While things were spiralling crazy, those that dependably remained by me were seeing every one of these signs that I neglected to see at first.

Love and persistence were two things that spared me and my friends and family.


I thought everything slipped from my hands and I could not have a life, but after being in the recovery stage, I started to heal and forgive myself. I was given a second chance in a happier and healthier life. It was difficult, I won't deceive, but I'm very jovial that I wasn't alone and that I still have individuals who trusted in me till I was back to normal.

Noticing these signs could be a lifesaver for the addicts, they need to know that they can be saved, they deserve a better life to start over.